Why you should be obsessed with success

Success the definition in the book states it's the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.Success is what defines a winner from a loser and in essence an achiever.Great individuals have been successful and idealistically this is true.Being successful is what is all about and success is the name of the game.

Now I can continue to hammer this down into your head as a source of deep hypnosis but i would rather not.And why is that? Well aside from it seeming mainstream its because the key is to learn from experiences-mistakes so to say.Learning from trial and error, developing an static sense of knowledge.Just like when we learn how to ride a bike, sometimes we fall when we are learning.But soon enough proceed to get on it again and try over and over.Until you achieve what your goal is....learning how to ride a bike.I like to give the bike example because in life it's the same exact way.Whatever your goal is, you fail , no problem as long as you continue to keep going.Pushing and ultimately achieving your much desired goal.They say hard work pays off and this is the truth that your father's father told him as well, and he to you.

And let's get one thing straight and that is to be prepared for failure.Now when I say this I'm not saying that you should fail at whatever it is your trying to accomplish.No, on the contrary I give you my best wishes and the best to you mate,but being realistic we encounter failures in our lives.Per say I have seen very hardworking young men.That have given their all for such a desire that illuminates their being but that may not be their calling.Perhaps, that same aspiring rookie baseball player is a much better suited to be a football player.Once again this does happen and is commonplace for people like us.

A good friend of mine we go way back, he has always said he wants to be a national runner.Be an Olympian and to this day he is still trying but that ain't his calling.A stubborn SOB he is, and that's good. A hard hitter giving life a run for its money.But he just simply does not have the body to be a runner.I have told him advice is just advice take it or leave it, and that is good because he is doing something that makes him genuinely happy.

There are many ways to be successful in life.And hard work beats talent, cause your constantly pushing.Surround yourself with positive people that encourage and support your case.That in itself will help you one step closer into achieving your goal.Give naysayers a boot to the ass (hypothetically speaking) and change your behavior.
Follow a role model, someone you look up to and aspire to be like.That is another good tip to follow if you want to.It does help and motivates you to stay positive and determined and take action.

I have been trough many ups and downs myself.Success and failure are keywords that appear in our lives.However I have chosen to plant the seed and watch it grow.When we plant a seed we make a change we make a starting point or use that as a stepping stone.

I like to share my knowledge with guys that maybe going trough conflicts or struggles.I like helping people for the most part.Because I now sometimes life sucks and you need that extra push.I know how difficult situations can be and how we can turn them completely around.So make the best of your situation, and do not give up on your goals.