Be a man

Bold,valiant,and self-reliant are traits that define a gentleman that does not let himself be pushed around.He is nobody's plaything so he knows deliberately where he stands.Women look after these traits in Men after all,She want to be reassured that you are going to take good care of her.She wants to rely on a genuine bona fide Man.

With that being said it is imperative that you defend yourself.Cause guess what if you don't nobody will.So look alive and benefit from being an alpha male.Nobody wants to be seen with a "wuss" for a boyfriend/husband.Know who you are and what you are entitled to.

Perception turns into a reality greatly and for the most part that is OK. Go about your endeavors and be as blunt as you can be. You will see a great change in the way women perceive you.Buddha states,"the mind is everything what you think you become".

So if you believe you are an attractive alpha you will act accordingly.Because you are going to be seen as a confident individual with a superior outlook on life. Act upon the idea and make some positive changes in your life.

Nobody likes to be pushed,shoved around, and ultimately be somebody's lackey.If this applies to you, ask yourself this, do I really want to be in such a mediocre situation? Am i content with this?(and unless your a legitimate masochist) nobody wants such a lifestyle.

Know where you stand and focus on your flaws.

Use these tips to stay on top of the game.Become your own boss.

• Use nonverbal communication/body language With efficiency.Albert Mehrabian stated that 55 percent is nonverbal communication versus the 38 percentage that involved words when communicating.So standing straight & having good eye contact is essential.
• Do not be afraid to speak your mind, and let others know what you think.everybody is entitled to their own opinion and so are you.Be outspoken and live the life you want to live.
• Think like a winner and not like the average joe.Do not settle for less than what you are worth.So think big and stay on top the game.

 

Doubt and insecurities are your biggest enemies.and if you fail get back on your feet and fight back again.Do not quit on yourself.

I have personally seen this in other men. As a consequence of this,life is very dull and uneventful for them.Never satisfied with what could have been a great outcome.

Think about your role models. How are they?an who are they as human beings?What do they convey to the people?

For instance The rock did not become the best paid actor in Hollywood by settling for less.
No, he failed the first time as an NFL player.But he did not quit, he kept on going pursuing wrestling and became a less than average wrestler named rocky maivia.After time "rock" became a top star with his skills on the mic & unique moves.Thereafter transitioning to Hollywood and it's astonishing films with his charismatic personality(and the rest is history).

Great things happen when the "trial and error system" is incorporated.Believe in yourself and leave doubt at home.Use valuable resources to get the most out of what you want.Make positive changes in your life and satisfaction will soon follow.