How to talk to girls

Talking to girls is considered by many an art.Nevertheless how to effectively talk with a girl is another thing altogether.For some this proves to be a walk in the park but for others this can prove to be a difficult challenge.I would suggest looking at how to communicate effectively with girls from a general stand point.and regardless of the goal you wish to achieve with a girl whether it being trying to get a girlfriend, getting laid, or a general f$+k buddy.Communication and body language will play a major role in your success.If you are looking for a dtf girl, screening them is critical but I will talk about that on another post.In the meantime I would suggest looking at RLD blog on how to get laid on the first date: a step by step guide from meeting to closing  for other great information.If you consider yourself to be a average or good at speaking with girls this post might not be for you.I decided to do this post for gents that have a general idea but lack certain skills and although some are basic, it is the core foundation for it.So give yourself some time to get things done the easy way.

Mistakes guys make when talking to girls 

Lets sit down and analyze what men do wrong when speaking to members of the opposite sex.

• No matter how much of a ladies man you may be girls like to be heard too.Let her talk as well and be an active listener.Yes she is interested in how your weekend went down at cabo, & how much you made yearly with a self adjusted life, but she wants to be heard too.
• A little humor is good here and there & making a girl laugh is good in setting a light-hearted environment. Just don't overdo it on the jokes. Remember anything in excess can be a double edge sword.

Truly mistakes like this make someone look like a class a "douche".All the same if you give the wrong impression or start off on the wrong foot, you can kiss your chances goodbye.

Speaking to girls the right way

• Firstly start by having open body language & use immediate self confidence with ease.Along with good eye contact would be excellent and a must.
• Be honest, even if you are trying to impress the girl. Lying will only get you so far and can result in a negative experience.
• Be direct let her know what you think about her.This allows you to set your intentions straight and avoid the dreadful friendzone all the while Complimenting her sincerely without overdoing it.

Being witty can also be okay if that is part of your personality, if it ain't do not try to be somebody you are not.Just be yourself and let her pick up on your positive vibes.If you find the chemistry right between you two, good! if you don't all the same her lost.If you are a novice at speaking effectively with women I would advise reading The art of seduction by Robert greene. A powerful tool for men who just can't seem to talk to women. There you have it talking to girls is simple but advantageous when done the right way. Learn how to talk and represent yourself in a most adept way.